A rare case of obsession being in love...

Yes my firends: a rare case of obsession being in love. Contradiction?! ... Where that might be?! Obsession vs. being in love... Where is the godammit contradiction? When you're in in love, common sense says that you're in a sort of "outta of your mind state. Focused on the Other. Centered on the OtHER" What happends when the OtHER dosen't love you anymore but you still love her?!... You're obsessed... A rare case of obsession being in love.That's what I feel.